Winter evenings invite us to slow down. The light fades early, the air turns still, and something in us begins to reach for rest. But unwinding isn’t just about switching off—it’s about letting go. And that part often needs more than quiet. Here are three ways to help your mind actually release, especially when the season calls for restoration: #1. Create a transition, not just a ritual. Lighting a candle or making tea is lovely—but if you’ve rushed into it straight from emails or errands, your nervous system might still be bracing. Unwinding begins with a shift in pace. Try closing the day with intention: change your lighting gradually, move slowly between rooms, or narrate the change aloud (“That’s enough for today”). The body responds to cues. Give it one. #2. Choose sensory cues … [Read more...] about Unwinding Isn’t Passive: 3 Ways to Help Your Mind Actually Let Go
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3 Things Often Forgotten When Creating a Calming Routine
Winter Evenings at Home: 3 Things Often Forgotten When Creating a Calming Routine As the winter evenings draw in and the air turns quiet, many of us feel the pull to slow down. We light candles, make tea, and try to create a sense of calm—but sometimes, even with the best intentions, something feels missing. Here are three things we often forget when setting up a calming evening routine at home—especially in winter, when the need for emotional warmth and sensory restoration is at its peak. #1. The transition matters more than the ritual. It’s easy to focus on the “what”—the bath, the book, the herbal tea. But the nervous system responds most to *how* we arrive. If we rush from task to task and then expect instant calm, we’re asking too much of ourselves. A gentle transition—closing … [Read more...] about 3 Things Often Forgotten When Creating a Calming Routine
At the Top of Your Tree? 3 Things You Can Try
Today, I'd like to share a quiet guide for when your resources are maxed out, because there comes a moment—often quietly—when the usual tools stop working. The breath cues feel hollow. The affirmations don’t land. Even rest feels like effort. You’ve tried everything. And still, something aches. This isn’t failure. It’s a threshold. When your resources are maxed out, the nervous system isn’t asking for more input. It’s asking for less. Less stimulation. Less striving. Less fixing. What it needs is permission—to pause, to not know, to not try. Here are three gentle invitations for that moment: #1. Let the body lead Instead of reaching for a technique, notice where your body wants to be. Curled up? Stretched out? Under a blanket? Against a wall? Let it choose. Let it shift. No need … [Read more...] about At the Top of Your Tree? 3 Things You Can Try
Evening Wind-Downs That Actually Work: Winter Edition
A gentle guide to rhythm, repetition, and rest As the evenings draw in and the light fades earlier, the nervous system begins to ask for something quieter. Not silence, necessarily—but rhythm. Familiar steps. Gentle cues that say: it’s okay to stop now. Winter doesn’t demand productivity. It invites hunkering down. And your wind-down rituals don’t need to be elaborate or perfect—they just need to be offered. Why Wind-Downs Matter More in Winter Rest doesn’t begin when your head hits the pillow. It begins with repetition. With the soft signals that help your body shift from alert to ease. In colder months, when the world outside feels sharper and darker, these cues become even more important. Your nervous system responds to light, sound, scent, and texture. When you repeat the … [Read more...] about Evening Wind-Downs That Actually Work: Winter Edition
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Understanding Self-Worth, Self-Confidence, Self-Esteem, and Self-Love
In the journey of personal development and mental well-being, terms like self-worth, self-confidence, self-esteem, and self-love often come up. While they are interconnected and sometimes used interchangeably, each concept has its unique significance and impact on our lives. Understanding these differences can help us cultivate a healthier relationship with ourselves and improve our overall quality of life. In this article, we will delve into the definitions of self-worth, self-confidence, self-esteem, and self-love, explore how they are similar and different, and discuss practical ways to enhance each aspect. Whether you're looking to boost your own sense of self or you're a hypnotherapist looking to support your clients in their personal growth, this comprehensive guide will provide … [Read more...] about Understanding Self-Worth, Self-Confidence, Self-Esteem, and Self-Love
Always thinking the worst?
Do you often imagine the worst possible outcome of a situation? Do you worry excessively about things that are unlikely to happen? Do you feel anxious and stressed about the future? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you may be experiencing a kind of cognitive distortion known as catastrophising. What is catastrophising? Catastrophising is a type of negative thinking that involves exaggerating the probability and severity of negative events. For example, if you make a mistake at work, you may think that you will lose your job, ruin your reputation, and never find another job. Or if your partner is late for a date, you may think that they have been in an accident, cheated on you, or left you for someone else. What is the impact of catastrophising? Catastrophising can have a … [Read more...] about Always thinking the worst?
FAQs
What happens in a consultation? Your consultation is a relaxed, confidential space where we’ll explore your needs, set clear goals, and discuss how hypnotherapy or guided wellness sessions might support you. Occasionally, hypnotherapy may not be the right fit at that moment. If that’s the case, I’ll explain why and offer a helpful next step—whether that’s future support through Hypnotic Universe or a recommendation to another trusted service. How much does a session cost? Pricing varies depending on the type of session or programme—whether it’s one-to-one hypnotherapy, a guided relaxation class, a confidence-building workshop, or something else. Just get in touch and I’ll be happy to provide details tailored to what you’re looking for. How long is a session or class? It … [Read more...] about FAQs
How I got my weight and diabetes under control
If you've met me you'll have noticed that I'm overweight. I really hate the 'O' word (obese), so I'll stick to using 'fat' if that's ok. So, I'm fat, but what you may not know is that 2 years ago I was 30kg heavier. However, I've gone through a number of lifestyle changes, which I used my hypnotherapy skills to achieve the following goals: I wanted to reduce my weight and have my diabetes under good control, so that I could get my chronic pain under control. So, I completed an 8 week weight management programme, and managed to lose 30kg since starting the course. I'm still losing weight too, just more slowly...and more sustainably...than I've ever done before. My A1c is down to just 51, from 95 and I'm now stopping some medication as my weight continues to reduce. It feels amazing … [Read more...] about How I got my weight and diabetes under control
Hypnosis in the workplace
Hypnosis, or hypnotherapy, is a therapeutic technique that can address various issues and facilitate positive outcomes. What many people don’t realise is that hypnotherapy can also be applied in the workplace. Briefly, here are a few ways in which it can help your workforce. Boosts employee happiness Imagine a workplace where everyone is happy, productive and stress-free. A workplace where conflicts are resolved peacefully and worries are left behind. A workplace where employees feel valued and appreciated for their contributions. Sounds too good to be true, right? Well, it doesn’t have to be. With stress reduction coaching and hypnosis, employers can help their staff achieve a state of calmness and positivity that boosts their performance and satisfaction. By listening to their needs … [Read more...] about Hypnosis in the workplace
