In the journey of personal development and mental well-being, terms like self-worth, self-confidence, self-esteem, and self-love often come up. While they are interconnected and sometimes used interchangeably, each concept has its unique significance and impact on our lives. Understanding these differences can help us cultivate a healthier relationship with ourselves and improve our overall quality of life. In this article, we will delve into the definitions of self-worth, self-confidence, self-esteem, and self-love, explore how they are similar and different, and discuss practical ways to enhance each aspect. Whether you're looking to boost your own sense of self or you're a hypnotherapist looking to support your clients in their personal growth, this comprehensive guide will provide … [Read more...] about Understanding Self-Worth, Self-Confidence, Self-Esteem, and Self-Love
Child mental health
Case Study: Hypnotherapy Successfully Helped 13 Year Old with School Phobia
Today's case study is an interesting but long one, so go grab a cuppa :) Background Clare was a 13-year-old girl who developed a severe school phobia after being bullied by older students at her school. She refused to go to school and experienced panic attacks, nausea, headaches, and non-specific stomach pains whenever she thought about school. She also had low self-esteem and felt isolated from her peers. Her parents tried to persuade her to go to school, but she became angry and defiant. They consulted a psychologist who suggested hypnotherapy as a possible treatment. At the beginning, she rated her anxiety about going to school as 9 out of 10 (with 10 being extremely anxious). Hypnotherapy sessions Clare agreed to try hypnotherapy after learning that it was a safe and natural … [Read more...] about Case Study: Hypnotherapy Successfully Helped 13 Year Old with School Phobia
The key to a happy friendship: revealed!
What is a happy friendship? A happy friendship is a relationship between two or more people characterised by mutual trust, support, respect, and enjoyment of each other's company. It involves sharing experiences, interests, and emotions, and providing emotional and practical support to each other. What makes a happy friendship? Here are some ways to foster a happy friendship: 1. Use good communication Maintaining healthy relationships requires consistent effort and effective communication. By keeping in touch regularly, you are showing your loved ones that they are a priority in your life. Additionally, actively listening to them shows that you value their thoughts and feelings. Here are some tips to help you stay connected: Schedule regular … [Read more...] about The key to a happy friendship: revealed!
Managing Depression : The Importance of hypnotherapy’s role in managing depression
Hypnotherapy is an increasingly popular tool for managing clinical depression. Why? By tapping into your subconscious mind (the automatic part of our brain), clinical hypnotherapy can help you access emotions and memories,that you may have been unable to reach before. With this new perspective, you can gain insights and ideas for managing your depression in a more effective way. Clinical hypnotherapy is also being used as a self-help tool for people who want to take control of their mental health. It helps them understand the underlying causes of their depression and gives them the tools they need to take action on it. Furthermore, clinical hypnosis has been found to be helpful in reducing anxiety levels and improving sleep quality, which are both important elements in managing … [Read more...] about Managing Depression : The Importance of hypnotherapy’s role in managing depression
6 ways to feel happier, when you really feel sad
Hear me out on this one, because I have lived with depression for a long time. For me, medication wasn't really that effective, so I really had to max out on many other things - things which I could change. In the 2 years or so that I was at my lowest point, I discovered a few things about how to make myself feel happy, when I felt really sad inside. I'd like to share some of those with you today. You will have heard of some of these no doubt, but my hope is that you find something a little different, which you haven't tried before. Doing these things have helped me eliminate 75% of my depression medication. 1. Ask yourself this question... If you're feeling sad, you will need to be very intentional by purposely doing activites to brighten up your day. It isn't easy, but practice … [Read more...] about 6 ways to feel happier, when you really feel sad
How to improve self-esteem
Today we're looking at 5 key ways in which you can improve your self-esteem. 1. Accept yourself Self-acceptance is: The act of accepting yourself and all your personality traits exactly as they are. You accept them no matter whether they are positive or negative. This includes your physical and mental attributes. - Waters 2021 Waters also explains that beyond self-esteem, self-acceptance leads to many benefits, such as: Control of emotions Forgiveness Improvement in self-confidence Helping you be yourself If only we accepted ourselves the way that we openly accept others. I always find it interesting that we often set such high standards for ourselves, compared to others. Don't do it; you owe it to yourself to be kind to yourself. 2. Value yourself If you have good … [Read more...] about How to improve self-esteem
How to value your mental health
Today we're lookng at 6 key ways in which you can promote mental well-being in your own life. So let's jump right into it. 1. End toxic relationships Scott (2020) defines a toxic relationships as follows: A toxic relationship is one that makes you feel unsupported, misunderstood, demeaned, or attacked. - Scott (2020) The term doesn't apply to just sexual partners, but every other sphere too, whether it's your employer, a family member, a coach, or somebody else. 2. Talk to friends You know the saying "a problem shared is a problem halved"? It's said for a good reason, because sharing a problem allows you to get a different perspective, process your own thoughts, feelings and emotions and sometimes just doing that allows you to reach a conclusion or decision and maybe find the … [Read more...] about How to value your mental health
10 signs of childhood emotional neglect
In today's post, we're discussing 10 signs of childhood emotional neglect. So, what is emotional abuse and emotional neglect? Emotional abuse Emotional abuse (also known as psychological abuse) is a common cause of low self-esteem and, judging by the clients that we see in our office, it is a significant cause of distress with respect to mental health distress. People who experience emotional abuse may demonstrate distinct personality changes, such as being withdrawn, feeling anxious, depression, or even suicidal. According to Healthy Place, emotional abuse is as follows: Any act including confinement, isolation, verbal assault, humiliation, intimidation, infantilisation, or any other treatment which may diminish the sense of identity, dignity, and self-worth (Tracy, 2021). Emotional … [Read more...] about 10 signs of childhood emotional neglect
Hypnotherapy for children can strengthen your ‘brand’
As hypnotherapists, we understand that one of the best life skills we can teach our children right from a young age, is emotional intelligence. When we teach these skills to our children, we really are setting them up for the best chance of a positive future. Children typically respond well to hypnotherapy So with that in mind, it's worth mentioning how readily children often respond to hypnotherapy and how hypnotherapy can really help with many of the common childhood issues. For example, it can be helpful when resolving issues such as nocturnal bed-wetting, resolution of warts, increasing confidence, making it easier to make new friends and more. I recently saw a child who had been having problems sleeping due to some unresolved fears and phobias. However these were resolved in just … [Read more...] about Hypnotherapy for children can strengthen your ‘brand’
How can we help teens to achieve emotional growth?
With increased anxiety and depression, and with reduced self-esteem, how do we bring about a positive change in self-reflection, self-care and growth of teenagers? Today's blog post asks this very question. Importance of personal growth Personal growth and self-improvement are important facets of life that aren't merely the preserve of adults. Quite the contrary; they are in fact, key life skills that can help us to better understand ourselves, regardless of life stage. And mastering them can help teenagers enhance their career prospects and enrich their lives. Place2be is a is a children's mental health charity with over 25 years' experience working with pupils, families and staff in UK schools, to improve children's and young people's mental health. The state of childrens' mental … [Read more...] about How can we help teens to achieve emotional growth?